Month: March 2016
Is God Proud of You?
We can all agree that it is a great feeling when someone commends us on a job well done. When our hard work is acknowledged, we feel appreciated. The sun shines a bit brighter on the days when our efforts finally pay off and we are told that we made a difference, whether it is at work , church, or anywhere else where we devote our time and energy. Unfortunately, we don’t have the pleasure of experiencing that type of day everyday. There are days when we try and try, and yet nothing seems to work the way we hoped. We work just as hard as when we got recognition but no one seems to notice this time. It is important to remember that we don’t live our lives by the approval of others but it is only human to want someone to appreciate us and give affirmations when we go above and beyond. Positive reinforcement is a motivator for a reason.
1 John 3:22: “And whatever we ask we receive from him, because we keep his commandments and do what pleases him.”
Unlike the world, God notices everything we do and He blesses us for being obedient. When we follow His commandments and live our lives for Him, He seeks to encourage us to continue. We are valuable members of His team and He appreciates us when we work hard. God is a proud father who takes his child out for ice cream when he gets an A+ on a test. He knows that we try hard ever day to do a good job and our effort does not go unnoticed. If we ever feel unappreciated in life, we only need to turn to God and spend some time considering all of the blessings in our lives, instead of focusing on our frustrations, and we will realize that God appreciates us constantly.
Proverbs 16:7: “When a man’s ways please the Lord, he makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.”
The best way to please the Lord is to always live by faith. When we trust God through the trials and tribulations, we show God that our faith is strong enough to withstand the storm. If our faith starts to be shaken but we turn to God to regain our footing, God is also pleased because we had the wisdom to turn to Him for support. Even when we struggle with the not-so-favorite people in our lives, when we are at peace within ourselves, they will see that we have contentment and they will realize there is no benefit in trying to upset us because we have God to keep us stable and calm. They will be discouraged from bothering us because their efforts to upset us will go unnoticed as long as we keep our eyes on God.
Philippians 2:12-16: “Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure. Do all things without grumbling or questioning, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in vain or labor in vain.”
The strength of our relationship with God depends on our effort to get to know Him on a deeper level. When we focus on living for God, we are less likely to be distracted away from building that relationship and we are able to get to know our Lord as our Heavenly Father and comforter. God is not an unattainable divine entity who watches us from afar. God is much more hands-on and He wants to be a part of our lives every single day. He wants to be our father, our teacher, our best friend. When we seek God first, we are inviting God to do great things in our lives. We should never expect praise and adoration from God because He loves a humble heart. We should thank the Lord for His many blessings and live life as the best possible version of ourselves so He is pleased with us. Remember that God knows us inside and out. Even though we cannot see him, He is always with us and encouraging us. We have to ignore the negativity and frustrations in our lives. Instead, we should listen for His voice of inspiration and motivation, and God will turn our day around.
Isaiah 43:4: “Since you are precious in my sight, and because I love you, I will give people in exchange for you, nations in exchange for your life.”
Thank you, Lord, for your encouragement. Thank you for your many blessings. Thank you for the tremendous opportunity to live a life that is pleasing to You. Please help us not to crave the recognition of others. Thank you for reminding us that we are precious and appreciated in Your eyes. Thank you for being proud of us. Amen. – Katie Ann
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How Do You Deal with a Bully?
As children, most parents tell us never to deal with a bully with fighting, but rather with our words. We should try to meet confrontation with civilized conversation and to rationalize with our bully until they see the error of their ways. The problem is though, most bullies have no interest in being civilized. Bullies want to find a way to build themselves up by bringing other people down. One would hope that, as adults, we wouldn’t have to deal with bullies anymore but, sadly, a different kind of bully exists. Adult bullies are sly and calculated. They don’t come right out and threaten to fight you and steal your lunch money like they did when we were kids. Bullies come in different varieties and most are more coy in their methods. But just as they did when we were younger, they still prey on anyone who seems weaker or more vulnerable.
Proverbs 15:1: “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
Even though we want to please the Lord by being patient and pray for people who put us down, God doesn’t want us to allow people to demean or disrespect us. The important thing to remember is that there are proper ways of confronting our bullies in a way that is pleasing to God. It is better to approach a bully calmly and with respect, whether they deserve it or not. We should deal with all conflicts with dignity. Causing a scene, screaming, and other dramatics allow the bully to have more ammo against us and they begin to learn what pushes our buttons. Extreme emotions show a lack of control. If we respond in anger, we are allowing them to get under our skin and then they gain all the power. God’s power, on the other hand, keeps us grounded, calm and collected, in times of conflict. When we feel baited, all we have to do is turn to God to be our strength when we have none.
Matthew 5:43-45: “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.”
Jesus helps to clarify that we are commanded to love everyone, even the bullies, and, while this seems like an impossible request, we have to remember that God is with us through everything. Every difficult person in our lives who seeks to make life more complicated and stressful, whether directly or indirectly, should be met with love and prayer, not anger. We are supposed to show them compassion, even though they would not show us any, because we know better. When we show love, especially when it is undeserved, we reveal the Lord to them. As much as we would hope that our positive example would help change their bad behavior and actions, only God can change their hearts. All we can do is follow the Lord’s example by loving the unlovable.
Roman 12:19-20: “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.’ To the contrary, ‘if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head.’”
We have to fight our immediate impulse to either fight or hide. We have to take a passive stance against bullies but not like an ostrich who hides from a predator. We need to actively pursue love. Pray to the Lord for strength in times of adversity. We should never lose hope that the bullying will stop. The Lord will always make a path for us out of the Valley of the Shadow of Death. He will never leave us in harms way. Our Shepherd always rescues us from the wolf who seeks to destroy and devour us. Whether you are dealing with someone who is spreading lies about you, or someone who is trying to undermine you at every turn, God knows what it is like to have people speak badly about Him and attempt to cause Him harm. Have faith and He will rescue you.
Psalm 18:3: “I call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised, and I am saved from my enemies.”
Thank you, Lord, for listening to our prayers. Thank you for giving us hope in times of trouble. Thank you for your hedge of protection that you place around us to shield us from our enemies. Thank you for giving us hearts of love, even when it is difficult to show love. We pray for the bullies in our lives, and in the lives of people who we love. Please help them to be content in their own lives so they don’t feel like they need to put others down for their own personal gain. We pray that they will find You and realize that a life of bullying isn’t the way they should live. Thank you, Lord. Amen. – Katie Ann
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What’s Your Worth?
Worth is based on the value of an item in reference to importance or usefulness. Today, the worth of the penny is technically one cent, but many agree that the penny is valued even lower than that, almost to the point of considering to get rid of it all together. A penny no longer holds much value in the eyes of the consumer. When it comes to the worth of a person, it depends on the person and how much they are valued (usually monetarily). Magazines, like Forbes, make lists of well-known people and post how much they are worth. Whether we are worth five dollars or a billion dollars, God’s perception of our worth is very different.
Ephesians 2:4-9: “But because of His great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions – it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with Him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages He might show the incomparable riches of His grace, expressed in His kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God – not by works, so that no one can boast.”
God does not calculate our worth by adding up our money or even our good deeds. His mercy and grace is not conditional based on our worth. He saved us by sending His Son to die on our behalf because He loves us, despite the sins we commit and the mistakes that we make. We are not worthy, but God would never view us as worthless. He loved us enough to send His Son, Jesus Christ, to live as a human and to be crucified so that we can live an eternity in Heaven with Him. What an amazing gift we have received!
Galatians 2:20: “I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.”
Today, we celebrate the risen Lord. Jesus did not die and stay laying in a tomb to rot. Jesus rose just as He said He would. His crucifixion was not the end, it was only the beginning. We have been made new in His resurrection through His grace. We have been given a fresh start. Now that we have grace, it doesn’t mean that we aren’t going to sin, but it does mean that our sins have already been forgiven. Although we are still sinners, we are not destined to die, as long as we believe in Jesus as our Lord and Savior.
1 John 1:9: “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
Our relationship with God allows us to have a self-awareness when we sin. We are able to identify when we have sinned. Although our sins were already forgiven on the cross, we still need to acknowledge that we have sinned. The Lord told Peter that we should forgive others who sin against us seventy times seven (Matthew 18:21-22). God extends us the same courtesy. His grace is not a limited time offer; it does not have an expiration date. His grace is a testament to His deep, undying love for each one of His children. We need to be honest with the Lord when we sin and confess our sins to Him, and He will forgive us and help to guide us so we do not fall into the same temptation again. Thank and praise His holy name from rescuing us for a miserable fate. He is worthy to be praised.
Thank you, Lord, for your grace and mercy. Thank your for your endless forgiveness and patience when we mess up. Thank you for allowing us to confess our sins. Please help us to be conscious of our sin and to present those sins with humility. Let us ask for forgiveness and learn from our mistakes so we can live lives that are pleasing to You. Thank you for always keeping Your promises. Thank you for conquering death and rising from the dead to show us that we have life because of your love for us. Happy Easter, Lord. We love you. Amen. – Katie Ann